Credit/debit card
By phone bill
It would be great if we could know what everyone was thinking all the time. Having a direct line into a person’s mind might make life a little bit easier – although we might find out some things we wish we didn’t know…
Even people with tremendous psychic abilities can’t just tune into whoever they like, whenever they like.
However, you may be able to tell when someone is thinking of you. Read our list of signs and see for yourself!
If you find yourself thinking of that person frequently
If you find yourself thinking of someone, for no apparent reason, and it seems to be out of your control, it could be that they’re thinking about you.
We don’t mean if you see something that reminds you of someone, such as their favourite drink in a restaurant. We mean really out of the blue, persistent thoughts with no warning. Then you are most likely in their thoughts too, especially if they are someone you don’t think about too often.
You get an emotional surge
Often, when someone is thinking about you, you get a surge of unexpected emotion that corresponds to how they’re feeling. For example, you may be having a perfectly pleasant afternoon and all of a sudden you get an overwhelming feeling of sadness. If you instantly think of someone in particular, they are probably thinking about you and missing you. Maybe a friend you haven’t spoken to in a while? Or even an ex-boyfriend or girlfriend.
Finding a feather
We’ve written extensively about feathers and what the meaning behind finding feathers is but a white feather could be a sign that a lost loved one is thinking about you from the other side. Many people have reported finding white feathers either in their home or out in the world, soon after a loved one has passed. Just because a person dies doesn’t mean that they stop thinking about you! (We’ve blogged about other signs a lost loved one is nearby too if you’d like to learn more about that)
Have you experienced any of the above? If so, someone in particular could be thinking about you! If you’re looking for help or answers on any other topic, make sure you have a look at our range of psychic guides on our blog.
She lately reply my post and suddenly i fell sad and miss her a lot i had a crush but im in love with her almost a year and cannot confess when i try to approach her she is nervous i cannot understand
I had a strange thing last night! During my work ii listened the radio, and an hour i heard 2 songs reminding to my ex girlfriend! One song from Adele-Set Fire To The Rain and Gotye -Somebody to used to know! The last song was our last memories together! It was emotional, and now 8 years ago..She had husband now! I forget her for a long time,but these 2 songs pops up suddenly in an hour time,i don’t know is there any sign, or reason this happened! Now i can’t stop thinking about you! Strange!
For about 3 weeks now I’ve been thinking about this guy, I can’t see to get him out of my mind. It started out of the blue, for no reason at all. I met him about 13 years ago, he was on vacation in my country, I was hanging out eith some friends at this cool place near a beach and he, well not him actually a friend of his aproached me saying that he wanted to know me. I accepted even thoug I was getting out of a bad relationship and was kind of in a deep hole, depresed, etc. But I just saw him and said yes. We hang out almost every day of his vacation, he left, we kept talking and texting and all of a sudden he stopped calling and texting, I tried reaching out to him but he never answered back. So I just left it like that. After two years he came back on vacation and called me and I don’t know why I could not resist him and we saw each other again and after that I have no idea what have happend to him. And three weeks ago he just poped up in my mind, He is in my thoughts every single day and night and I try to distract myself at work, at my house and just can’t! And I tried to look for him but I hace so little information about him that is imposible and that frustrates me so much! I don’t know what to do, I want to understand why is this happening to me!!
For some strange reason this man that I know of but see him every other weekend popped in my head. I don’t know what this means but in the past if I had thoughts of a person before I met them they become a love intrests? Am I going crazy what does this mean
This guy is older than me by 3 years and I know we can’t be together since I’m only 16 he left for the Navy almost a year ago when he graduated. Ever since then I’ll have dreams about him occasionally and daydreams. I find myself thinking about him after I tell myself to stop but I can’t stop. I wish I would of said something before he left that day for basic training like I’m going to miss you. GIve him a hug since I never had the gut to do it, I wish I could see him again, I moved from the school we both went to he goes there sometimes my friends from the school day but I’m homeschooled now and now I eel I’ll never see him again, He kept asking me when I turned 16 and I kept saying my birthday and he said ok in the most serious way. I just wish I knew what it all meant. I hope he is ok. Dangerous profession but I know that’s what he wanted to do. He hurt his ankle before basic and was so glad when he was cleared to go to basic training he told me so many times he was my Friend “Therapist” when I had problems.
I met him few years ago and we became best friends then we became lovers for the first year everything was fine but he started to ignore me then he left ..now it has been 3 years and I still can’t forget about him .. I think of him everyday .. I dream of him that he’ll come back… I see him in my dreams and I don’t know what to do I don’t know now where he is … I want to talk to him but he’s gone
Bf broke up with me said he feel out of love and went with some other girl …I still think about him ,like I had a dream of him last night and I don’t know why …I don’t know the understanding he pops up in my head
I just started thinking of this guy whom I really like but sometimes he’s mean to me, and others he’s really nice to me. But I just started thinking of him out of nowhere. I miss him
Every time I think about my crush, he chats me……
My first love came back into my life, I always wished we could be together. He said things like I should have married you and had these children with you(problems he was having with current baby mama) a year and a half later after all the promises of marriage he just turns his back and cheats and tells me about it. I let him go mainly because I know that loyalty is not debatable. I was so angry and hurt I couldn’t believe this happened, that I trusted him and what a fool he made of me. Its been 4 years and I’m over it all but odd things like numbers relating to him I will see in places. I could be singing a happy song and all of a sudden he pops in my head. Then almost right away a song he loved comes on the radio and i’m sorry but this has to mean something! I’m not trying to think about him. This happens a lot, still where I feel so deeply sad and just start crying for no reason.
I’m been in a relatonship for 12 years. About a year and half ago My boyfriend had a friend that we hung out with. At first it was just my boyfriend and him. Then he started ask for us both to come over. I started thinking stuff to myself about what a good friend he was. Then after awhile I felt I a connection with him like I was talking to him in my head. I would say I wished he would wear an orange shirt and he would. Or I wished he would make more eye contacted and he did but like way to intensely. The last thing that happend I was cooking in the kitchen at his house for everyone and he was standing by the sink. Watching me I had this feeling in my gut like he wanted to kiss me. So I left the kitchen then we left soon after. My boyfriend went to jail not long after. We haven’t seen each other since. But He keeps popping in my head almost everyday. I find myself telling myself I love you then my name. Why wont he go away. I have prayed and tried everything. Can’t get him out of my head
I had a really great relationship with a very good guy over 20+ years ago. About two weeks ago, he all of a sudden came up in my thoughts, which I thought was weird. I had this overwhelming urge to find him and apologize to him for the way things went down between us all that long time ago. I looked him up and sent him a facebook message. He responded in less than five minutes; and what was weird is that he apparently had looked me up and knew I had two children, etc. I still cannot get him out of my mind. Does that mean that he is thinking about me? It was all so random and weird to me at the time. I haven’t asked to be friends with him on facebook or anything like that. I just don’t know what to do since I am married, and so is he. But if he or I were truly happy where we are, would we even be thinking about each other? I digress.
@Kerri Same thing is happening to me. about a month ago I had a dream about an ex from over 20 years ago I had a bad ending with and ever since I cannot stop thinking about him. It is overwhelming. I even tried to look him up thinking if I just saw a pic it would pass but he is not online at all. It is so freaking weird and annoying. I didn’t even think about this guy this much when the relationship ended. I’m starting to feel like an obessed psycho. I have never had anyone dominate my mind like this before. The worst part is the guy was a total jerk. Pretty much one of the last people I would ever want to see normally, yet here I am obessing about this idiot.
There was a girl who was crazy about me at school. She tried asking me out at least five times that I remember and wasn’t shy about telling others that she was really into me. At the time I wasn’t really interested, found her a bit forward and never knew how to respond. All that took place over a period 28-31 years ago.
Over the past few weeks she’s come into my thoughts from nowhere, and won’t go away. Partly, I’m left wondering if I should have given her a try, or maybe try to find her if/when I go back to the UK (I teach English abroad to cut a long story short). I see many of your comments suggest it could mean she’s thinking of me right now- maybe something in her life has changed and her memory is going back. We were always very different, but somehow I wonder…
Hi, i saw girl in a gym 1.5 years back and she was attracted to me but I avoided her cause i was buzy in other sort of work but she tried 3 to 4 times to get my attention and pushed me to talk with her and after one day she get angry and that day she wanted to know exactly but I avoided her again. After 3 months later i saw her again but she did eye contact with me and ignored me by walk away in front of me but i saw she was upset. Now i m moved to another city but still she came randomly in my mind and most of the time at work. i want to forget her i had 3 girlfriends before but never happened like that? Could you give some appropriate solution not just small suggestions?? Thanks
For five years i can’t get a girl of my mind. No matter what i do or try she keeps coming back. most of the time it is overwhelming, and hard to focus at work or anywhere. the overwhelming feeling i feel in my chest very strong. All day long she is there. What does this mean.
it is two yers now but i still think of her
My now exhusband hurt me so bad. It devastated me for him to just up and leave me. It took months for me to get past this. I am now stronger but yesterday out of no where i started to miss him and was holding back my tears. Today i just cried and prayed.
I met a guy at work and we became friends. One day, I secretly found out that he has a criminal background and I still continued talking to him via text even after I quit working. He kept asking me out and I always cancelled, because I was scared due to his criminal background until one day he told me that he officially has a girlfriend (his neighbor that he knew since high school). I was confused and mad, because I thought we had a strong chemistry or something, that’s when I told him that I found his mugshot online. After that, we stopped communicating. I don’t know why. Maybe he was ashamed of it. But why can’t I stop thinking about him? He’s always on my mind 24/7 and this has been going on for two months now. He is so impossible to forget! He was not even my boyfriend, he was just a friend at work. Does that mean that he thinks about me too? It’s so annoying that he’s always on my mind, I can’t even move on. It’s so hard! Did he cast a love spell on me or something?
I got involved with a guy who had a girlfriend, at the time I also had a boyfriend. Long story short me and my boyfriend broke up and I really didn’t care because I got involved with him and all my feelings for my boyfriend went away. He still had his girlfriend so of course I got the short end of the stick. We have been involved for almost 6 months on and off and I haven’t been able to stop thinking about him since we started. No matter how busy or occupied I am I still think of him. I once asked him does he think about me the way I think about him and his response was all the time. I find myself really sad sometimes when I’m thinking of him and I know it is because he misses me too. I even would be looking at my phone and I’ll say ok he is about to text me in a min and out of the blue he text. It’s like he reads my mind to. I expressed to him how badly I want kids so Mother’s Day this year was really sad for me I stayed home all day and stayed off of social media. I didn’t expect to hear from him due to the fact that he has kids as well, but long behold he text me out of the blue. Idk what to do to get these feelings out of my body I know I shouldn’t feel like this for a man that has a girlfriend but it’s so easy to say and so hard to do.
There’s this girl who we used to have feelings for each other and we kinda fell out and since like 3 weeks from when we stopped speaking so like last two weeks or so, she’s been popping up into my head and I can’t control it and I told her and she gave me a dead reply which I was expecting but I just can’t seem to get her out my head
My ex and myself split up two months ago. I do think about him but tonight I had an almighty feeling in the pit of my stomach that he’s with someone else. I’ve never had this before and I’m wondering if it’s just me being silly or that he might be thinking about me or I just have a sense for these things…
This is my 2nd time happen to me that i wokeup in my middle of my sleep and my heartbeat so fast and i think of my ex boyfriend, whats that it means?
I met somebody last August thru mutual friends, and we chatted on messenger for about 6 months. We had a small disagreement, nothing major but I haven’t heard from him since. It’s been about 3 months now. we had such a strong connection and crazy chemistry. I was absolutely heartbroken and cried fro weeks. i tried reaching out to him numerous times to no avail. Slowly but surely getting back to normal. But I started to break out in tears at the weirdest times. Doing the dishes, watching a movie, reading a magazine….I cry for a few minutes while thinking in my head “What the hell is going on?!” while his name pops in my head….and after that it’s back to normal. Started to freak me out a little bit…
I dated this man for 6 months we lived together and his 4 yr old son was a big part of my life. Then on January 3rd after my daughter left he said he can’t see me anymore. He blocked me and it hurt bad. So I mourned that loss. But some days he’s all I can think of. This man caused my heart a lot of pain. I want to forget him but it’s so hard. I’ll be fine all day then I cry missing him
About 10 years ago I met a guy I really got along with online. We used to talk together about everything. I felt so close to him at that time and I felt like he felt the same but we never actually said that to each other. We seemed like we would be really close friends at the most. Eventually stuff happened in our lives we suddenly stopped talking and got distracted from each other. But every few months and sometimes even a year or so we would make contact again and talk about our lives. Talking to him just felt different like we had some kind of bond that i couldn’t explain. We never even met before but had talked about it being a possibility once but we always got to be too busy with our own life’s problems for anything like that. We would even talk about each others partners and give each other advice. I would get these overwhelming feelings of missing him randomly after so many months or years of not even thinking about him but when I got this feeling I wanted to cry because I missed him so much and this closeness it seemed we had. Anyway I’ll never forget the time I got this feeling out of the blue I just thought if him and wondering if he would be online after not seeing him there for months and not even checking for even up to a year sometimes. I logged in this day just after the feeling and there he was on skype when I checked to see if he was there. Well we started talking again of course and it was a happy talk we both were happy to see each other again…now again it’s been months and I got this feeling again…I don’t understand it really but definitely feel it’s different in some way there’s definitely some kind of connection with him that I feel, either that or I am just going crazy I understand how some of you feel though..if only we knew the answers.
Hello,
I am constantly thinking about a lover that would have been my husband this year. But he just up and disappeared on me going on two months now. I recently found out that he has moved on and started a new life with another woman. He left me pregnant with his child and planning our future together. He has a drug addiction, and was seeking help he gave up. But the point is I can’t stop thinking about him, and it hurts like heck because I’m pregnant and I know that he is with another woman, and he didn’t break up with me he just left me with no warnings. I can be fine all day and then I just start crying out of no where thinking of him. Please help!
My best friend (The person I love) and I were separated for 3 months. While we were separated I was thinking about him a lot and he kept looking at me. After those three months he apologized to me about his behavior towards me. I forgave him because he deserves another chance, like other people too. Believe me that him and I had the best moments that we just can’t let go. I really want to know if he feels the same way as I do.
Sometimes I get sad out of nowhere, and I know it’s related to her. My heart sinks to my stomach and I start tingling with sadness. Other times, it’s the complete opposite. I feel whole and loved, and I know it’s related to her. Sometimes I feel sexual towards her; other times I cannot feel sexual sexual towards her.
I think it has to do with our chakras. When we are both thinking of each other, our chakras open and they communicate through vibrations.
These events don’t happen all day. Like I said, it’s out of nowhere, and I can’t force the feelings. It’s sort of beyond my control.
There is this boy at school that I have known him since we were little I have never talk to him at all for some reason for the past few days each day when we walk by to each other but going in different directions he always smiles at me and waves hi to me.And out of the nowhere When I’m at one I just think of him which sometime my head actually hurts . Which it starts to get wierd is that at night when I go to sleep I dream about him eventhough I don’t think about him at all . What does all this means I really don’t know what it means ?
I don’t know when this was posted but oh well. I used to be really good friends with this guy but we haven’t talked in years because of something that happened with another person we see each other rarely but I’m always thinking about him I get a happy feeling when I think about him I wish we still hung out but we don’t. His grandparents live across the street from me (we are both teens he’s 1 year older than me though) so I see him up there sometimes and it makes me sad because he was a really good friend of mine.
Hello, I don’t know why do I keep thinking about him. We don’t have a relationship or had any . We see each other at some functions and wil talk for sometime and will say bye. But most of the time I felt an energy from him. Most of the time I ignored because we two are married and settled. Somedays i will dream about him. I wanted to know why I am constantly thinking about him with no reasons. Is he thinking about me the same way ? I am confused!!
Hey there, I’ve been talking to this guy for months and we met at work and whatever and we started talking and you know being friends and he puts is social media info on my phone so then we started walking together and he admitted he found me attractive and we started conversing on WhatsApp and he would send me videos from Twitter and we would ask about each others day but then he would just leave me hanging for a few days and come back etc. So we started talking and then we met each other on a snowy day whilst I was getting my hair accessories and whatever and we walked and talked and had fun and carrying the conversation so we then sat down and then we started kissing and then he took me to the bus stop and he messaged me and he was offering that we should be friends with benefits and then he said it could lead to something serious and I agreed and then he ghosted and he came back so then we were talking and then I asked him what he was doing for the holidays and then he was like nothing and he would wanna come mine to chill so then I was like its going to lead to sex and he was then being in denial about it and then skipped to the sex and we both wanted it and after we had sex or whatever, he stared moving weird and acting strange and just being rude so at work I was talking to him to see what happened and then we forgave each other and kissed but then we wouldn’t talk to me and I couldn’t stop thinking about him and then I still would think about him randomly and then I’d slowly get over him and then he would pop up and I’d forgive him but every time I’d see him hed be so disrespectful and risk chances of us being parents and I’m only 18 at the time so then after it was on and off and I stopped caring and whatever and but once in a while I would think about him but then hed pop up and that. So two months ago he popped up apologising to me about being disrespectful and all sorts and my feelings and the rush I had for him would all go running back and it’s not the same with the others and then we’d meet up and do it but then he started doing the same things he said he wouldn’t and I cant stop thinking about him, I just want him like I would smoke and get high or drunk and text him how I feel and what I wanna do but then not long ago he was being disrespectful and left me hanging for another girl and I couldn’t stop thinking about it like all my emotions were all over the place and he then popped up saying that were meant to be for each other and he has an attachment to me etc. And now he not even texting me back and I csnt stop thinking about him and I just want him in my life but the universe is giving me hints and showing me dreams that hes not the one and I honestly think on going crazy. All my friends are telling me hes bad for me and I’ve seen the red signs but I just cant stop thinking about him. Like hes the first thing I think about when I wake up and the last thing before I go to bed like everytime I hear someone mentioning his name, my heart shivers and that i want him and i dont at the same time so what does this mean because I’ve honestly had enough of this never ending circle and I’ve been looking for answers everywhere and i cant seem to find it and i miss him deeply.
I experienced the same thing, Im happily married and my ex too. 23yrs. ago.
4 yrs. ago he added me in fb and talked about the past and were happy to see each other even in facebook, he said what if we did not lost contact we might have a child of our own, its awkward when he said that. Its kinda weird because in that 23yrs, he always crossed my mind and sometimes in my dreams but our paths are not meant to be hahaha anyways one yr now no communication but still think about him sometimes and feel sudden rush of emotions like from the past and bring back the old good memories alive. Could this mean that he was to thinking/dreaming of me? just wondering why…
Out of nowhere I get this rush of sadness, i could be in the middle of doing something and it hits me. Not sure if hes thinking of me in those moments or just me not letting go yet. Whatever it is I do miss him, just dont miss the things that took place from him which caused me to be pained. When I think about what happened a lump starts to build up in my throat. My sanity was torn cause I truly have/had deep feelings for him. Wish it was different but it is what it is. I’ll get over him eventually…..
I had crushes and whom had a crush on me. But none of them were able to pick a spot where they suddenly pops out of my mind and thinking something emotionally about them. I just never had usually a time where they just pops out in my mind. If i do it, that means intentionally. The only one person that popped out suddenly in my mind was her. It did unintentionally. So, i became sad and depressed that i needed her attention and it was also the first time i got a surprise depression and it was different from the other girls.
I just can’t stop thinking about the guy i met 6 yrs ago. I met him at a homestay and 6 yrs went. Still i cant stop thinking about him. I know tht he too is thinking about me. I can feel the signs. But i dont even know his name and any other details. Really I miss him badly. I just want him back.
I have been with my current partner for couples years now and I’ve known him for 5 years next year makes me every time I where away from each other I can’t help but think about him and I can’t help myself that I just can’t be with him but sometimes I can’t stop thinking about him and when we are apart I think we talk to each other every day when we are apart what we doing I can’t remember how I felt like this for anyone but him you’re the best thing that ever happened to me and I will never change him for the world but I always think about him even times when he thinks I don’t think about him I just want him to know I’m always thinking about him in my heart and in my thoughts there’s not a moment goes by Where I never done think about him.
I met this guy This year and I got on know him we started texting and then in about a week or 2 I fell in love with him. A whole situation happened where he told me I’m annoying he hates me and that he never wanted to talk to me again, ever since then we haven’t spoke and it’s been about 3 months and I miss him so much. What’s weird is that I got get these weird feelings randomly but I don’t know what they are. We still go to school together s but we haven’t spoke ever since. is he thinking about me?
I met this guy This year and I got on know him we started texting and then in about a week or 2 I fell in love with him. A whole situation happened where he told me I’m annoying he hates me and that he never wanted to talk to me again, ever since then we haven’t spoke and it’s been about 3 months and I miss him so much. What’s weird is that I got get these weird feelings randomly but I don’t know what they are. Is he thinking about me?
Me and this girl know each other from school, but we hadnt ever spoken to each other but some people mentioned that we were going through the same things and we could help and understand each other (depression), we bumped into each other randomly at a store and i cant stop thinking about her. I feel like a empathic pull towards her and she pops up in my head all the time. I think about her all the time (months). I dont know what to do
I met a guy one month back in my office and suddenly we started talking and after 5dates we had a fallout but I think that I m missing him but why???? He misses me too???after f5dates I m missing a person and we r no more I touch he is in another office now. Hope he misses me too
There’s this guy across my street . i just can’t stop thinking about him and when I see him in feel like running away. yesterday I looked at him in his eyes while I was passing by.
I had a strange experience a little while ago, I was at a party a man I know (who pops in my head often) was with his new girlfriend, that night she was in my dreams not doing anything but I was getting shooting pains in my legs and had a very disturbed sleep… Does this mean anything?
I CAN FEEL HIM thinking about me and it’s driving me up a wall. psychics told me he dreams about me too. its a past life relationship so its harder than just somebody you only knew in this life. I can’t move on if he doesn’t stop thinking about me, because im an empath so I feel him ALL the time and ESPECIALLY when hes thinking about me. I cut him off because I wanted to give him an opportunity to move on. I CAN FEEL HIM THINKING ABOUT ME. I fucking hate him so fucking much. he thinks he will destroy my life but he won’t. all I want to do is move on. In his last text message to me he threatened to kill himself. he is such a energy vampire fucking coward. I can’t let him get to me. he doesn’t have any fucking power over me anymore. im literally shaking my hand to get his goddamn energy the fuck off me and I haven’t seen him or slept with him in over 6 months. so anyone else would be long over it, except an empath like me. I fucking hate him so fucking much. my forehead hurts.
Hi, I hope you get back to me, coz it’s doing my head and heart in. One night the son of a lady I know was just staring at me, it wasn’t an uncomfortable stare, he just looked at me and then I connected to him, his eyes rather, I’m saying really, we locked eyes, it was nearly passionate. This happened a few years ago, and ever since, I come back to that memory every now and then, out the blue, and feel Passion, does that mean he’s thinking about me?
5 years ago My ex ended with me due to our Long distance relationship. I was devastated and whilst i have kept my mind open to finding someone new, i just havent had success at all. I got to know A few people that seemed nice but suddenly everything would withdrawn. I has some photos with my ex that i thought were lost forever.. suddenly i find them last weekend in a little bag in a Box i thought i had gone through several times .. then the other day i was listening to music on youtube when a japanese song just came on. I never listen to japanese music so there was no reason for it to be on auto. My ex lives in japan.. then.. I suddenly i have a message from him on an old social media site we both used and first knew each other on when young but now in our 30s ignore . I just dont know if this all means something or if its all craziness. I know for certain he has never left my thoughts and there was great sadness when we parted in japan. We were involved for 5 years.
My husband recently found out his father passed in may so we went to Texas to see his step mother. This was the first time we had meet her and it was only for a few days. So today I’m sitting here and I get this urge to cry and see her. I feel like I’m being drawn to go back to Texas immediately. Like I’m being told to go. Please help me understand
I just can’ stop thinking of him.I think of him in the morning and in the night. There was this time when out of nowhere I started to think of him for a really long time and my head started to hurt. I got my phone taken away so I haven’t texted him since then and I don’t know when I will get my phone back how can I tell him the reason why I haven’t texted him. There’s day where I wonder if he still textes me or even thinks of me since we don’t go to the same school by any chance. By any chance is he thinking of me ?
I can’t stop thinking about her, and it’s almost like i can feel when she’s thinking about me, when she’s sad. I try to validate what I feel by sending her messages but she pushes me away. I don’t know. But my gut is telling me she misses me. I miss her too
I fell out with a friend a few weeks ago and it was my own actions that caused it. I am in love with him and I understand if he doesnt want to see me again and so I kept focusing on improving my own life and mentality. Lately though he pops into my head and I tingle and my chest aches. Thoughts are so random and out of nowhere. Is he thinking about me?
I have mental illness, and so does this guy who i know of because we went to the same school. I didnt know he had mental illness until a family member mentioned it. We were going to meet, but i was going through physical issues and it didnt happen. He has consumed my thoughts, i try not to think about him, but he always pops into my head and i havent even officially met the guy which i find so strange why i cant stop thinking about him. This has gone on for months, i get emotional and feel attacted to him and i dont think its normal. I thought maybe because im empathic person, but this situation feels completly different as its consuming my thoughts. I try to convince myself im creating this in my head as im confused why this feeling is so insanly intense. Like i am meant to be with him right now. I dont know what to do because occupying myself isnt working
I was in the gym yesterday. I was perfectly happy and feeling extra motivated. Then in the middle of my workout I just felt sad and started missing this guy I use to talk to. I starting crying and I felt this strong I miss u emotion. I gave myself some time and got back to my workout. Now I’m sitting here wondering if I ever even cross his mind. I tried contacting him about a month ago before this happened and he didn’t respond. So after that I just told myself to forget him. And I did. Then randomly yesterday I felt this strong feeling of missing him and I couldn’t stop crying. I just hate I have feelings for someone and i don’t even know if I cross his mind
Cant stop thinking about him i get theses feelings it feels werid like hes touching me but hes not its like its butterflies rubbing me its werid.
This happen too me a couple of days ago, out of no where an ex girlfriend from high school (25 years ago) popped into my head and I haven’t been able to stop thinking about her, and what’s really odd is that we weren’t not together for very long a few months after we started going out her fathers job relocated them to another state and that was that, never really thought about her since high school other than about 10 years ago we contacted each Facebook said our hellos and how ya beens, and that’s it and soon after that she disappeared from Facebook and never had th slightest thought of since, now something triggered my mind and she is all I think about
Wishing Moon reply: “Hi Billy. Sometimes there are people we meet in life who are impossible to forget, no matter how hard we try. It’s important to cherish the wonderful memories you have with this person, but try not to let your memories prevent you from making the most of the present or meeting new people. If you and your high school girlfriend are meant to be together, the universe will have a way of making it happen. But who knows? You may find yourself venturing down a completely different path and finding someone else who you can’t get off your mind. Wishing you lots of love and happiness!”
When i was in kindergarten i met a boy we were best friends he moved in 1st grade then came back in 2nd grade i became bff with his sister than i moved i dont think of them much but i was watching fairy tail and all the sudden memories of him and I came rushing back for no reason i was in the middle of the episode and when i got back to my senses it was over it seems i lost all of my senses then all the sudden i started balling because i started thinking of him i still love him but why did i just randomly start thinking of him i didnt even relize i was thnking about him too was he thinking about me?
Wishing Moon reply: “Hi Tatum. It’s perfectly natural to feel a sudden rush of emotion like this. It sounds like something in the fairy tale you were watching reminded you of fond memories you have of the past. Remember: the universe has a funny way of guiding us through life and ensuring we find what is meant for us. If he was thinking about you too, your paths will cross again and everything will fall into place. Focus on living life to the full and you’ll find the right person for you in no time.”
This guy in my office was crazy about me all of a sudden. We worked together for two years but suddenly his behaviours towards me changed. He is married with two kids and im married too with a child.
I never encouraged him but he was constantly behind me. He once managed to drop me home as i was late on a field visit. It was like he was constantly following me knowing me where i am. On the way he told me how much he loves me and cant get me out of his mind and he cant think of anything else. I said its all wrong and ignored him from that day on. But couldnt as we worked in the same place. He too is attched to his family and i with mine. I know my priorities. He used to get angry on me bcos i dint reciprocate. He stopped talking to me after a point and dint disturb me.
Now im no more in that office. But still i get his thoughts. Is it because he is thinking about me or its my own thoughts.
Wishing Moon reply: “Hi Priya. We’re so glad to hear that you no longer work in that office. Your colleague’s behaviour sounds extremely unacceptable and he shouldn’t have followed you or told you how much he loves you, especially since you’re both married and you made it clear that you were not interested in him. Now that you’re no longer in that environment, please try to put this man’s behaviour behind you and look ahead. It’s easier said than done, and perfectly natural for him to be in your thoughts and for you to be in his, but you can’t let him prevent you from enjoying life. Do you have any close friends you can trust? Confiding in them could bring you a world of comfort. Wishing you love and happiness”
I have been thinking every now and then about this guy which i never had a relationship with. I know him from school 15 years ago.
We used to just talk sometimes on msn.
But nothing more or less. He did invite me when we were older one time to his house to “chill”. But I never went because in the back of my head i know or i think i knew what he wanted.
However he is a very cute guy. He is handsome etc. Hebjs a professional soccerplayer in Cyprus now. And doing well for himself. Not that I see or watch soccer games and see him
But I googled him. Because I think of him just out of the blue
Sometimes..
i dont know why he pops up in my head. But I would like to know if he has the same maybe? Or im just delusional and lonely. Hahahah.
It is weird tho. Like what does it meannn?!! Damn.
Wishing Moon reply: “Hi Joy. It’s completely normal to have thoughts and feelings about people from our past. Sometimes we can’t help but wonder “what if?”. Remember – the universe has your back and what is meant for you, will find you. If this man is supposed to be in your life, events and circumstances will gradually unfold until you meet again. In the meantime, focus on living your life and keeping busy. By living your best life, you can reduce the amount of time he’s in your thoughts and ensure you don’t miss a thing. You never know, someone else might wander straight into your life who you’re even more fascinated by.”
Just because you are married it does not mean you are dead. There are gonna be plenties of crushes atound you. Having a feeling is totally humanlike but how we act upon that feeling within our boudries and commitment is what actually we are accoutable to us to our commited relationships and mist of all to God. So people take control of your actions is mire important becuse feelings can mot be controled. Stay true to yourself and to God and find a balance between your rights and responsibilities in relationships with other human.
For last 2 years m struggling sleepless nights to get this guy out of my head 24/7.Goodness gracious m married with kids , he is married with kids. Eventhough he vomited his restlessness after he saw me first time but i never entertained that and all rhis time i guess ive been in denial that i cant be having crush on guyz not even my type. I am in so much stress that chest pain took me to ER.The struggle i am gong through for last two years to get him off my head is long story,I kept my self so occupied with things, traveled so much just to get him out of my mind. I cursed my self when i found him in my head during bed with my husband. I feel helpless. God help me. The day i hurt someone because of me it has to be the end of my life.Worst thing is after having no contact with him Its not getting any better. Its gona be three years on an off meeting him casually for professional reasons, the way he looks at me or sometimes he ignores me like i hurt him its just killing me. I am a professional meet several men for business but I have strict boundries. I feel speechless for my feelings.
Dear all,
I accept that there might be some exceptions in the world but most of the time this things happen just because of us. I constantly and solely am thinking about someone for more than 5years, but I am completely sure they might not even remember my name! You know what I mean. It is because we are sad for whatever happened and can’t get rid of it. It is just ours and nobody can help us except ourselves. Which is so difficult
I think about this guy every day every minute. He’s in my mind all the time, I feel weird tbh because it’s the first time something like this happens to me. We been knowing eachother for 6 months we been on & off. He made it clear he doesn’t want me & I accept it. Why can’t I stop thinking about him ????
Hi I fell in love with this girl from school back in the day but i never put my undivided attention into the relationship because I was young and stupid. I moved away a couple of years later and she didn’t wana talk to me anymore which hurts so much. I go months without thinking about her one bit then all of a sudden she will pop in my mind either in a dream or out and about. It brings me kronic sadness. I feel as if I have moved on as it was over 7 years ago now and like I say I dnt think about her often, every now and then she will pop in my mind and I so regret not making it work cuz I no it cud of worked it was all my fault why it didn’t!
I get tingly sensation in my head, chest and sometimes in my private area as if he’s thinking about me emotionally and sexually. I’m realizing that I have never gotten that feeling from anybody else I’ve had crushes on. I know he’s attracted to me but he has somebody else but when he comes around he acts all nervous and shy. The feeling comes and goes and it’s nothing I can bring on myself so I know it’s him thinking of me.
This is happening with me from a very long time. Due to situation we are staying apart but still not able to forget her and our memories still haunts me everyday, every single minutes. Dont know what to do…
I cant stop thinking about my crush all the time i feel it sexually is he thinking about me in that way. Why is he always on my mind all the time. I feel tingly when i cant stop thinking about him is this normal or not
Wow!!!! I really thought I was the only person to experience some of the things I’ve been experiencing. There was this guy I was involved with. Not the usual type that I go for but his approach was what made me think twice about giving him a chance. After weeks of playing phone tag via texting, I finally found the courage to let my guard down and invite him over. It was Thanksgiving of last year. We hit off immediately. I’m not the one to jump into bed so of course I made him wait. He actually had no issue with doing so and that was a major plus in my book. We met up after he’d get off wrk and we’d enjoy one another’s company. Completely innocent. Long story short… about three months in, I found out he had a child on the way. Literally torn me to splinters. It wasn’t that he had a child it was that he kept this from me and all the while I thought we were building something. His reason for not telling me was understandable but not excusable. We cut ties for about a month or so afterwards then we picked back up right before his bday. Things were going well. Then months later he moved. I was crushed and still am to this day. There are times when I think of him some but then there are times where he’s on my mind heavily and I become emotional. I try to think of other things but my mind always lead me back to thoughts of him. His smell his smile and all. Sometimes I believe I’m bugging because I have dreams about him that are very intense where I wake up feeling the exact way I felt in my dream. I can actually hear his voice sometimes calling my name and I can even feel his touch and kisses as if the dream was reality. Am I crazy? Am I just overwhelmed because I miss him so much?
There was this boy in my old school , who liked me and i liked him back but we both changed school and I decided not to share my new number with him (I know that must look stupid) but after 4 years I decided to add him on instagram and started thinking about him and then it stopped and all of a sudden I start thinking about him all day , and I even wanted to draw him , to text him , to tell him that I like him but I can’t , I just can’t !
I randomly thought about a guy I really don’t like. Like I mean I wanted to kiss him so bad, but I frickin hate his guts…Well, I thought I did…Lately, I’ve found myself thinking about him, and when I do I can’t stop…But around 11:30, it just stops…What is happening to me?
This happened to me yesterday!! I woke up with intense thoughts about a guy I was casually introduced to and saw 2more times after that. He’s not the usual type of guy I go for, but he is an attractive man if you like the tall, tan skinned, dark hair/eyes somewhat muscular type. The 3rd and last time I saw this guy was about a month ago at a party. We said hi to each other a little small talk, he gave me a side hug and we went about our own ways at the party, he mostly stayed near the bar with a few friends while I stayed with my friends at a nearby table. There were a few glances here and there, nothing that really stuck out in my mind, I thought he probably had a little too much to drink and that was it. When the party was pretty much over I left without saying goodbye to him, like I said before he’s not my type and it was just a casual introduction by a mutual friend that knows I wouldnt be interested and I don’t think he’s interested in me either…but an exact month to the day of that party I wake up thinking intense thoughts about him. All day long I can’t get him out of my mind. The thoughts are so vivid so intense that it felt like he was in whatever room I was in, I felt as if I could turn around and he’d be there. Obviously he wasn’t though.. these thoughts lasted all day and mostly into the night. When I got into bed still thinking about him, I actually said out loud “Ok, *name of guy* if you’re doing this to my mind, if you’re the one feeding me these thoughts then knock it off and actually come talk to me in person!” I went to sleep and woke up today like any other day. No thoughts of him at all. I just don’t know what yesterday was all about to be honest I feel like I lost my mind and real foolish.
I recently joined a new S/w company…I use to go buy a company cab .. I had crush on one guy .. within a week I feel in love with him..I dnt know why..I thought it might be just attraction.. But I can’t stop thinking about him even am at home and workplace as well..I eagerly await for him to see in breaks and at login and logout cabs…I feel very happy when I see his face…he is calm n cool guy..daily we look at each other..while he entering into the cab I will look for him very eager..one day he sat besides me in cab, no one knows how much happy I was that day..he spoke with me he said he likes my hair and asked suggestions for his hair to look better…love u becz u spoke with me right … 🙂 days are passing , I realized that am loving him lot… I hardly speak with him only 1min but I cried lot for him ..I just wanted to be in his life as his life partner…..Really dnt know how to express my feelings and I can’t do that becz he is two years younger than me and I’m not sure he will accept me…I know my love is blind… I don’t even know his name and few days later I came to know hos name is venu..babe…u dnt know how much I love you..my love is one-sided and it is pure …I hope one day atleast u will come to know my love 🙂 missing u Every second…Urs mad gal….
I suddenly started missing my ex way too much.it has been 1 year that he dumped me and from then on i moved on with a really nice guy . But nowadays i am finding myself being really sad about my ex.
Does my ex wants me back?
How can i get rid of the feeling and appreciate what i have?
So I have this guy friend that I had a crush on for over a year. Well he finally admitted to having feelings for me, long story short he ended things with me because of his past and some issues I was going through with my mom not accepting him for me. One night we were watching glee and he was being all touchy feely, later he confessed that he still liked me but didn’t want to hurt me. I’m confused, and I feel like we are both thinking about each other.
there is this boy i kind of have mixed thoughts on :/ he recently got a girlfriend and i know he doesn’t like her and that hes just doing it for peer pressure because she likes him but then i’m not so sure on my theory anymore cause apparently they were kissing today (like proper making out) but he just keeps walking into my mind and i can’t seem to get him out. but then also i’m not sure because he calls me annoying and he actually looks generally pissed off so he might be thinking about me in a bad way :¬[ and also when i first saw him he looked straight into my eyes and my eyes starting burning and we were no where near a window or light in that matter it was just really odd :{
I have experienced this with someone I’ve only met 3 times in my life. The day i met this guy i felt a very strong connection between us. He was sweet talking to me for a good couple of months until I realised things are not gonna work between us so i let him go. After a month of not speaking to him I had stopped thinking about him. One day I suddenly felt him near me. It felt so intense and real. The morning after I got a message from him.. We chatted for a bit and I ditched him again.. 3 month after similar thing happened with the same guy. I lied down in my bed and felt him looking at me. Again it felt so real and the morning after I got a message from him. Isnide I was raging at him for not leaving me alone though I never said anything to let him know how i flet about it.. out of the blue he apologised for it like he knew how he had made me feel. Then I made him understand that it would be better if we didnt speak. It’s been a couple of months now since we stopped speaking. I was at the cinema last night watching a detrctive movie and the same feeling run through my blood. He popped in my head again. The morning after I checked my phone and got a message… this time from another of my admirers that I hadn’t spoken to in a while 😀
Hello. Out of the blue I started thinking about an ex boyfriend from 20 years ago. I haven’t thought about him in 20 years & now I can’t stop thinking about him Does that mean he’s thinking about me?
Hi there! I’ve wondering the same for the past weeks. There’s this guy at work I cannot stop thinking about even when I tried very hard no to! he is married but for some reason he keeps poppin into my head. One weekend I was home, since we don’t work weekends, and my phone rang and I swer to God he came to my mind. When I answered I could not believe it but it was him!!!! I don’t know where or how he got my number and of course I didn’t have his, but the whole thing blew my mind, specially because he didn’t have to call me. An e-mail would have sufficed, and since that day it has become very hard for me to stop thinking about him. When we are in the same place, our eyes meet and I feel like I am about to pass out. I try to pretend nothing happens, but I don’t know… in my country we kiss hello and good-bye and even when we run into each other for like 2 minutes, we kiss hi and good bye.
I haven’t seen him for almost a week and it feels awful to miss him and think about him.
I am so sure he thinks about me too, I also have been waking up in the middle of the night out of the blue just to find myself thinking about him, I hope this goes away for obvious reasons…
Every minute in my mind I am just thinking about my ex boyfriend, I tried very hard to forget him but the more I try the more I miss him. What could be wrong. Could it be he also thinking about me also?
I am constantly thinking about someone. I tried to stop thinking. I could not do so. How to get rid from this all. It annoying ,disturbing and changing my mood.how can I know. The other person also having same feeling
I met someone, who very much like me, believes in enrgy, and balance. We were talking for months, and than she stopped, because I’ve been off balance, and I constantly feel like she’s thinking of me, my heart races, and she rushes to my mind. Does anybody else ever experience this? I’m honestly confused, because she says she no longer loves me, but it feels like she does.
Its been four sometimes I cnt stop myself from thinking of someone familiar…and I must say too much…at work watching movies even while sleeping etc….Is it possible that she is thinking about me too?
It’s been about 3 weeks since I last heard from / chatted with the guy I love . To be honest he just disappeared out the blue and to be honest he hinted he would go through depressed states since his father’s passing .
Lately though I have been quite sentimental … I sometimes find myself feeling this heartbreaking sadness which brings me to tears . When this happens he pops to mind , I’ll see reminders of him almost everywhere … his football team logo , or the name of his state/city , but more importantly before I got involved with him … I hardly ever saw or heard his name . Now all of a sudden it pops up in movies , or I’ll hear people calling his name to other people next to me etc .
Does any of this have a meaning ? , is there a reason as to why the more I try not to think of him the more I’m being reminded of him ?
I have fallen in love with the plastic surgeon who botched my nose.
I have been emailing him for over a year as I was suicidal and severely depressed after he botched my nose. He has turned out to be the nicest man I have ever met. I think about him 24/7. Seriously he is the first person I think about when I awake and the last person I think about before I retire to bed. He is on my mind all day. The sad thing is someone told me he was single and only around 3 months ago I found out he’s married with 2 children. I wish I could stop thinking about him but I cannot. I have never come across such a lovely kind and handsome man as he is. Oh he also lives over 5000 miles away from me. I am patiently waiting to find someone just like him which would be a miracle because there is no one like him. 🙁
I had a distance relationship for almost 3 years ,i didnt hear from my bf all the day cause we had an argument, but when i was working i had sudden pain on my shest for moments was so weird , then the next day i get his text early in morning that he had brain aneurism and he is in hospital and thank god they saved him , it was a miracl ,but the crazy part that i did felt when something wrong was with him , like mothers instincts , but this was a lover instinct
I have been talking and writing to a guy in prison
for six years. I fine myself thinking about him
all the time.And think does he think of me too.
I broke up with my bf a month ago…. and he called me about a week ago and he had called some days before that . But when we broke up we didn’t talk . And know I’m crazy thinking about him like 24/7 I’ve had dreams about him but i dont know what’s going on . It’s weird to have such a feeling about your ex And it doesn’t go away .
It has assisted me alot as I am trying to mend my relationship with a close loved one who means alot to me
In college I fell in love with this girl, and I don’t mean puppy love I mean proper love and she was my very first love. For over a least one whole year I noticed that when I go to sleep, before I actually fall asleep I see her face in my mind and it use to happen every single night. I also would sometimes dream of this girl. Could this mean that she was to thinking/dreaming of me and more importantly could it show that she likes or loved me back?
I was in a long distance relationship and suddenly the other person left without any notice.After a long time the message was I will always be there for you and then again left.Thoughts related to that person always lingers and feel restless at certain hours in the day.Is it that the other person is remembering me.
I broke up with my boyfriend and month ago and all that time I persists to not talk to him and feel that it does not a matter if he will not come back to me but today suddenly I remember him and felt a great desire to talk to him and cried a lot . Does that means that he thinks about me ?
I experienced this once last year.. After broke up for a long time.. I already forgot about him.. Suddenly one night I was thinking and feeling great sadness of him.. I was confused.. Because the feeling and thought came out of the blue.. I wonder if he missed me so much but I didnt contact him… Tommorow day, i got a phone call.. It was him.. He asked to make up our relationship again..
Husband died 10 years ago today, was told as time goes by it gets easier that’s not the case